Question:
Would you ever hurt a kid by saying that santa isn't real and take away their dreams?
Shadows mommie
2006-06-14 11:40:48 UTC
some people who do this i just want a truthful answer cause i'm 13 and still believe in santa and i still have dreams.
35 answers:
beb
2006-06-14 11:46:13 UTC
Used to work for a charity that regularly sent kids to Lapland.



Having regularly had to deal with the elves in his press office, I can assure any children reading this that Santa is very definitely real.
Poetess_4U
2006-06-15 15:05:37 UTC
I made sure that my boys, now 17, 16, and 10 yrs old did not believe in some fat white guy coming into our homes while we were asleep to give them presents. Me and my husband work too hard during the year to give all the credit to some stranger that will only come when they are sleep and have been good. We love our kids whether they have been behaving good or not. Have you seen the way some kids scream with pure terror when they are "made" to sit on Santa's lap? These are the same kids who believe in Santa! Why are they so afraid of someone so "pure and good"? They've heard only good things about this jolly sweet old man. Don't you think kids can be traumatized WHENEVER they find out the truth about dear ol' St. Nick? Santa Claus is a big American lie!!
lagies mommy
2006-06-14 12:03:21 UTC
Have you ever wondered why people seem so happy at Christmas time.Even though it is winter the world seems to brighten up a bit. Families that have nothing all of a sudden have the means to get presents.Dreams start to make sense, Sometimes even miracles happen in those days around Christmas. How do you explain all this? This is the spirit Of Santa Clause. The year that the twin towers were destoyed they had a beautiful story on TV of a baby that was born either on or just before christmas his dad had died in the towers.But his life will go on in his child,And that was the time that year that I finally started to believe that we really would be alright. So Believe and Dream because he is real.
Purelica
2006-06-14 12:09:37 UTC
Hmm... I think it all depends on how you were raised. I wasn't raised in the U.S. and my parents neither told me about the existence or inexistence of Santa Claus or of any of the fairytale characters for that matter. However, they did give me a lot of books, all of them were of different views, beliefs, themes, goals, etc... in other words, the books I read did not have the same types of characters and stories.



All my parents told me when they gave me those books were that 1) Books and stories people write are very powerful, they can make you believe and/or destroy your beliefs, so it's my choice to decide, 2) I should pay "very close" attention to each book/story I read because even though the stories might be completely different, all have a similar message, and 3) Imagine, don't just picture.



But I think rather than telling them that Santa is real or not real when asked, one may want to try and ask the child what s/he believes. If the kid cannot decide for him/herself, might as well tell him/her the truth. It's always a better policy than to lie.



Lastly, one suggestion I'd like to give you is, when you believe in something, or someone, ask yourself "why" first, and how "important" that particular belief is.
anonymous
2006-06-14 11:46:08 UTC
There is not a thing wrong with having dreams.



I'm fifty five years old, and I still believe in Santa. I believe that there is a Spirit in the world, especially at Christmas time, that affects people who have open hearts...and that spirit is Santa. He also goes by the name of Comforter, sometimes. During the Christmas season, alot of people need a Comforter. Of course, He is available all during the year. But, there is still a little girl in me that knows that He is especially active at Christmas time!



Please, world...don't kill this little girl's dreams!
Upama
2006-06-15 10:28:20 UTC
You're quite old enough to distinguise between the truth and a dream. A child may be a hurt a little by hearing Santa isn't real. But if they are old enough to understand it the truth must be told to them. And you must stop dreaming too, Santa is not there its just a silly babish thing!
Peacetree Suale
2006-06-16 12:57:21 UTC
Nope!! I do believe that children are innocent and have the ability to dream so allow that for as long as u can because once their innocence is taken by some idiot adult then that's it..I mean easter bunny, santa, the grinch (jj) but seriously let the kid dream it is no skin off ur back..as for the person that said that her and her husband work all yr to give some credit to some fat guy or whatever you wrote-stop being so self absorbed and go back to your childhood and see if you are being right..get a grip..don't blame ur kids just because you live paychk to paychk-loser
anonymous
2006-06-14 11:56:58 UTC
Well Baby Angel, I'd answer this way:



You wonder if Santa is "real"? Let's start by seeing how many people don't know who you are talking about. It seems to me that everyone knows who Santa is!



Every year, at Christmas time, millions upon millions of people help Santa to see that wonderful gifts and Christmas joy are delivered to deserving kids. And every year, many more millions of gifts are delivered in Santa's name to poor children who would otherwise have a joyless Christmas.



Some people might say that Christmas is not about Santa Claus...it's about celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ. I say that Jesus would not agree. He wants us to be joyous and happy. And He wants us to help others who are in need.



Santa Claus is certainly real. In the spirit of Christ's teaching, more happiness is delivered on Christmas day by Santa Claus and his willing helpers than on any other day...
shae38
2006-06-19 18:40:15 UTC
No in fact I have a sign in my house that says "this house believes in Santa Claus." I tell my son where Santa even lives. Well you keep on believing and dreaming.
Nick
2006-06-14 12:53:15 UTC
You don't tell a little kid that santa isn't real but when u get older than u can stop believing
yuvid6
2006-06-14 11:45:55 UTC
Is that what happened to you. Oh you poor girl. Your 13 now and you will have to accept Santa in a different light. Perhaps as a source of light that you can follow throughout your life.
CAMELMANDAN
2006-06-14 16:46:46 UTC
my mom beat me up when i was 13 for telling my 4 yr.old brothe that santa wasnt real.but now i have to kids that `r` 4 and 6 and i will beat anyone up if they tell them santa isnt real cause ii saw santa on t.v. last week and i know he`s real (he`s hangin out w/elvis)
sclady62001p
2006-06-14 11:45:43 UTC
hold on to your dreams little one and Santa is very real if you believe in your heart and don't let anyone ever tell you different
Vicki H
2006-06-14 11:44:53 UTC
Why take something away when we all need a something to believe in these days! Dreams are good to have wish more people had them.
GuessGirl18
2006-06-20 13:26:59 UTC
Yes, you can hurt them and take away their dreams. i'm 12 and i believe in him. People that say that don't know what it's like to have dreams.
thomasrobinsonantonio
2006-06-14 11:44:21 UTC
I am 65 and I honestly believe in Santa. If he did not exist, who gave me all my presents for the past 65 years. Anyone who does not believe in him will get nothing next Christmas.........
Who dat
2006-06-14 11:42:44 UTC
keep believing and dreaming baby girl. Thats why adults are the way we are alot of times. We stop believing and dreaming.
TINKERBELLE
2006-06-20 20:03:26 UTC
Who said Santa wasn't real? I wouldn't let him hear that if I were you. He will be making his list soon. So be good for goodness sake.
LUCKYMOM
2006-06-14 13:39:51 UTC
Never stop believing and don't give up your dreams.

Santa is real and I hope you will enjoy him and the magic of Christmas for many years to come
Dwaynasia A
2006-06-14 11:44:41 UTC
no i think its not right to take a kids dreams away if they still belive in something well let them dreams
ginabgood1
2006-06-18 11:45:42 UTC
You keep believing and you hang on to your dreams. We could all learn from you.
Chreap
2006-06-14 12:17:15 UTC
Believe in whatever you want, regardless of what anyone else says.
rachellynn200
2006-06-14 11:44:26 UTC
Keep your dreams alive.Some stupid kid did this to me when I was in kindergarten.Still hate that bastard.
Busy Lady 2010
2006-06-14 11:45:52 UTC
Good, there is nothing wrong with pretending. Thats what children like to do.
NEOTEH
2006-06-19 13:23:53 UTC
Never
kim_in_craig
2006-06-15 18:47:41 UTC
everyone believes in something. So, keep believing in what you think is right.
Hollywood girl
2006-06-17 12:48:40 UTC
No that is a very mean thing to do!

Who would do that?
euhmerist
2006-06-20 20:34:57 UTC
Read my answer to synchronised pickles.Then read some history, if you can find it!
JACKAL
2006-06-14 11:42:59 UTC
yes
babycakeys122
2006-06-14 11:44:24 UTC
Yes - it's for their own good.
shahram
2006-06-21 08:40:31 UTC
I would never do that
katers
2006-06-18 21:33:44 UTC
yeah probably, don't try it. They might cry!!!
Showaddywaddy
2006-06-14 11:42:44 UTC
get a grip - what do you think???
?
2006-06-14 11:44:13 UTC
NO!!
anna
2006-06-15 00:23:00 UTC
no!!!


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